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Massage for Body Therapy and Pleasure
Massage is perhaps one of the worlds healing arts,
you know if your body hurts, rub it and it will feel better. Over
the many 1000's of years, massage has grown into a sophisticated
healing art to help cure bodily aches and pains and emotional and
other maladies and receiving a massage can effect you in many ways.
They may be therapeutic, relieving stress and pain, or a luxurious leisure activity
and it is the luxurious pampering that we attend to first.
Massage has a reputable place in society,
and it helps to know what sort of massage you want and know how to
act with different types of therapists and everyone's experience of
massage will be different.
Here are some of the popular types of massage, and
what is involved as a therapist and as a customer:
- Sensual Massage
Sensual massage may be soft or firm, relaxing, and very
pleasurable, treating the whole body.
- The massage is best done in a warm, quiet
restful place, where both the customer and the therapist have
showered before the massage.
- Amicable Conversation about the massage
that you want will help set the tone of treatment
- Relaxing or inspirational music is
conducive to pleasure
- The massage is most often done using
natural body oils, the customer laying naked on a bed or treatment
table.
- The therapist may be clothed, however full
nudity is the preferred choice.
- Then using the hands and perhaps other
body parts, the customer is rubbed and stroked all over, and
may include arousal and sexual play.
- The role of the customer during a sensuous
and even an erotic massage is to lay back and enjoy the
experience.
- It is offensive to grope the therapist
- If you as a customer want a hands on
experience, an escort or sex service provider will be a better
experience.
- Sensual massage can be orgasmic and
addictive
- The benefits of sensual massage can
include relaxation, stress release, sensuality, orgasm,
warmth, nurturing.
- Some effects are increased vitality and
libido and can help in getting pregnant.
- Risks are that it can be addictive, and an
infatuation with the therapist may develop
- Tantric Massage:
Tantric massage is a sensual massage however the context and
experience are more refined. There is a great deal of
misunderstanding about tantra, so what could you expect?
Like sensual massage:
- Tantric massage is best done in a warm, quiet
restful place,
- Both the customer and the therapist have
showered before the massage, the shower, batheing or being
bathed a part of the experience.
- Amicable Conversation about the massage
that you want, and maybe some flirting will help set the tone
of treatment.
- Relaxing or inspirational music is
conducive to pleasure
- Tantric massage is more intimate than
sensual massage, and is usually done using
natural and often fragrant body oils.
- The customer may lay naked on a bed or treatment
table.
- The therapist may be clothed, however full
nudity is the preferred choice.
- Then using the hands and perhaps other
body parts, the customer is rubbed and stroked all over, in
such a way as to stimulate sexual energy, arousal and orgasm.
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Some Tantric therapists may offer a range of sexual
services.
- The role of the customer during a Tantric massage is
do as instructed.
- Mutual touching may be optional, but it is offensive to grope the therapist
- If you as a customer want a just want sex, an escort or sex service provider will be a better
experience.
- The benefits of sensual massage can
include relaxation, stress release, sensuality, orgasm,
warmth, nurturing.
- Some effects are increased vitality and
libido, the development of one's sensuality, improvement is
sexual skills like holding an erection for longer or helping
to achieve pregnancy.
- Risks are that it can be addictive, and an
infatuation may develop with the therapist.
- There are a wide variation of practices in this realm, many will be just sensual or erotic massages
conveniently called tantric.
- Tantra massage for the body is like
pumping up the tyres on a car, it drives better, if you let
the air out straight away, as enjoyable that release may be,
the onward drive is little better than before.
Therapeutic
Massage:
Like going to your doctor, therapeutic massage relaxes, relieves aches and pains
and assists from recovery from injury.
- The therapist will generally be interested in
your health and well being and be be dressed.
- Ideally you should have showered before
attending
- Discuss your problem
- Lay on the table or massage bed and be
treated, you may be naked, or part naked.
- There are many styles of massage - Swedish,
shiatsu, rolfing, tragar, deep tissue, acupressure,
reflexology, aroma therapy etc.
- Asking for sexual extras is offensive,
like, you may get lucky, but most often it just make an ass
of yourself.
- You may be able to discuss
sexual problems and they should be able to refer you to someone
who can help.
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As
much as it is great to be touched and
pampered, it is wonderful to be able to give
this to friends and family, or treat your
lover to some sensual & erotic bliss.
- Couples Massage
When you want to refresh that spark in your relationship and
discover new ways to turn each other on, a couples massage
lesson may be just what you need.
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