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The G Spot
The 4 Best Positions for Reaching a Tantric G-Spot Orgasm
by Jennifer Lawless
A Tantric orgasm is a full body energy experience. G-spot stimulation is
one way to access Tantric orgasms. The G-spot (Grafenberg spot) is a
small, lima bean-shaped area on the upper side of the vaginal wall
(tummy side), approximately 2-3 inches in. This spot feels different in
texture than the rest of the vagina. It is spongy and coarser in texture
than the rest of the vagina, which is normally how it is found. When the
G-spot is stimulated, usually through hard pushing or constant rubbing,
it causes intense orgasmic feelings that most women say exceeds a normal
orgasmic response.
To stimulate the G-spot, pressure has to be applied on the upper wall of
the vagina, AND the woman has to be extremely aroused. Blood rushes to
the G-spot just as it does to the clitoris during sexual excitement.
Therefore, any sexual position which maximizes pressure to this area
increases the chance for a G-spot orgasm. The following 4 positions
greatly increase the likelihood that a woman will experience a G-spot
orgasm.
(1) Rear Entry. The Rear Entry position, when done correctly, maximizes
potential for a G-spot orgasm because the man's penis should rub on the
upper wall of the woman's vagina. To do this position correctly, the
woman should kneel on all fours, her legs parted slightly. The woman
should resist the urge to put her face down onto the bed, and instead
try to keep her back arched slightly, with her elbows bent or her elbows
up and locked. The entry angle changes dramatically when the woman leans
forward into the bed. As the man enters her from behind, the sensation
should be one of tight and full penetration. The woman may feel his
penis hitting her cervix as this is often a good position to get full
penetration. The man can change his penetration to hit the G-spot by
pulling up on her hips and thrusting in a more downward motion.
(2) The Fusion. The Fusion position is a favorite in Kama Sutra. To get
into this position, the man should sit on the bed or floor and extend
his legs in front of him, and his arms behind him. The woman should then
lower herself down onto his penis. Her legs should be up by his chest
and bent, and her arms should be behind her and between his legs. She
then uses a combination of her arms and her legs to "rock" herself on
his penis in and in and out motion, sort of like a piston. This position
may seem unlikely to produce a G-spot orgasm, but the angle and the
seductive nature of the position make it highly erotic. The only bad
drawback of this position is if you have bad knees, you will not be able
to sustain it for long.
(3) The Flower Press. The Flower Press position is excellent for the
G-spot orgasm, multiple orgasms, heavier male partners, heavier female
partners, and pregnant women (earlier months). The woman lies on her
back and allows the man to penetrate her, as in missionary position, but
after penetration has been achieved, she then raises her legs up and
back, until they are either on his shoulders or on his chest. The man
kneels up against her and uses her thighs for support, and she can grab
onto his hips to help bring him into her. This position allows for
extreme penetration and his pelvic arch is against her clitoral area. It
also provides a nice rubbing against the top of the vaginal wall because
of the height of the man compared to the woman, which is what stimulates
the G-spot.
(4) Rotated Woman. The Rotated Woman position is a favourite with both
men and women alike because it offers excellent stimulation. To do it,
the man lies flat on the bed and the woman lowers herself onto his penis
facing BACKWARD toward his feet. Then, SLOWLY and CAREFULLY, she leans
forward, until she is lying on top of him, her legs outstretched and her
hands down by his feet. Then, she can slowly do a "figure 8" motion with
her hips or just grab his ankles and slide herself up and down. Because
she is lying down at this angle, her vagina is pulled taut, causing the
penis to rub it tightly, hence the G-spot pressure. She also gets gentle
clitoral rubbing by his testicles and legs, which is a pleasant and
gentle surprise. The woman is completely in control here and can set the
pace and the depth of the motion.
Tantric sex is meant both to enhance the physical sensations and to
transform them into a vehicle for blissful insight. Women feel the
orgasm from the G-spot or vaginal stimulation deeper inside their body,
rather than as the localized feeling they have with clitoral
stimulation. The whole-body orgasm is one of the Tantric methods for
reaching a state of ecstasy.
Jennifer Lawless writes about Tantra at her blog Tantra: Gateway to
Ecstasy. To discover how to instantly improve your sex, love, and
relationship life with the ultimate guided Home Tantra course, visit her
website Astonishing Discoveries.
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